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October is ADHD Awareness Month. You may have received an email about it, or seen a post online. And you may have skipped right over it – after all, YOU are aware that you have ADHD, isn’t that enough?

Nope. It is not. Let’s go through a quick round up for whom ADHD awareness is extremely important, impacting ADHDers, and neurotypicals.

Teachers and School Administrators – As a retired K-6 educator, I can accurately state that while teachers are aware of ADHD, many have not had appropriate training, and therefore do not have a full understanding of what it is and isn’t, or how to address challenges in the classroom.This is important if you are a parent of an ADHDer, as having your child get the message that they are lazy, incompetent, or even stupid can have life long ill effects on their self esteem. Additionally, if you are requesting accommodations or modifications, it is vital that the school team has a clear picture of what will help your child.

Managers in the workplace – ADHDers, with their creativity and ability to think outside the box, can be a real positive force in the workplace. However, they also can have difficulties with organization, and time blindness. This means that any project or responsibility, even simple tasks, can become a struggle to complete on time, or at all. Furthermore, ADHD hyperfocus can be a double edged sword. While being able to dig deep is a plus in any analytical position, getting stuck down a rabbit hole can slow work down without commensurate value. There are simple accommodations that can help with these challenges, such as check-ins with the manager. However, in order to put these supports in place, managers need to recognize that ADHD is real, not just an excuse.

Family members aside from parents – Hopefully, if you are an ADHD parent, having an ADHD kiddo has led you to learn about ADHD, and gain an understanding of the causes of ADHD, as well as how to handle your child’s particular brand (and if not, let’s talk!). However, other family members may not believe that ADHD is real, or may make comments that can cut your child’s ego like a machete. If we believe that family members love our child, and are just misinformed, then sharing more about ADHD can benefit everyone.

Our Government – Currently, the health and science arm of the U.S. government is going through radical changes, and often proffering opinions that are not backed by the majority of scientific research. ADHD has been mentioned in the MAHA literature, with RFK Jr. proposing voluntary attendance at “wellness farms” as a treatment. Perhaps some ADHD awareness, particularly relating to research backed treatment scenarios, would be helpful for the decision makers in Washington.

This is by no means a complete list. My goal is to change your awareness of how sharing accurate information on ADHD can be beneficial to you, your loved ones, and society in general. Knowing about your or your child’s ADHD isn’t enough; we need to spread the word.

So Happy ADHD Awareness Month! Go out there and amplify what YOU know about ADHD, for others!

It’s just about August. And after that…well, you know.

I’m really not trying to be a doom and gloomer. But, ready or not, before you know it, that big yellow bus will pull up to the corner. So let’s talk about what to do – and not do – before that happens. Let’s meet this head on!

Here we go, in no particular order:

1 – If your child is starting a new school in a district that is new to them (or a new private school), DO contact the school.

Reaching out to the school’s guidance office can be really helpful, in the cases above. You can make sure the school has all documentation relating to your child (IEP’s, Section 504’s, behavior plans). While these documents should travel with your child, there can be delays; you want to be sure that the school is aware of your child’s ADHD and other learning differences.

2 – DO NOT try to meet with your child’s teacher(s) prior to the start of the school year.

I know, I am flying in the face of articles you may have read. But as a retired teacher, I can tell you that teachers are not only incredibly busy getting ready for all of their students, they are probably doing so on their own time. If you’d like to email the teacher(s) to introduce yourself and your child, that’s fine. But meetings should wait until the year is underway. PS – teachers are professionals. They are required to read IEP’s and 504 plans prior to any student walking into their classroom – and they do.

3 – DO include your child in school supply shopping.

Believe me, I am well aware of the pitfalls of shopping with a child, with or without ADHD. However, school supplies are the tools that your child will use all year. They should have choices where possible, including having Fantastic Four folders or a Barbie pencil case. Furthermore, your child will be more apt to use and take care of supplies they have chosen. So Staples, here we come!

4 – DO start to incorporate morning and evening routines, and earlier bedtimes, before the year starts.

Summer is a time of freedom – playing outside by the light of fireflies, sleeping in, ice cream for breakfast. While we don’t want to cut off the fun before we have to, bringing back routines a week or so prior to the start of school will make that first day go much more smoothly. PS – if your child has been having an ADHD “medication vacation,” consider starting on back on medication before the first day of school. This will enable them to adjust to how they feel when on their ADHD meds.

And finally….

5 – DO NOT end the summer before you have to.

Kids work hard during the school year. ADHD kiddos have an even rougher road. While it is great to mitigate the “summer slide” with fun activities that have educational benefits (cooking together, playing board games, taking turns reading a book together), forcing workbooks and other schoolwork on your child during the summer is not, in my opinion, fair. Schools do assign summer work, and getting that done with a few weeks to spare enables your child to have summer last right up until it’s gone.

So enjoy the rest of the summer! Just keep one eye on that corner; that school bus is on the way.

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