ADHD Friendly Prime Days Ideas for 2026!

Amazon Prime Days are here (June 23 – 26) !! Here are my favorite ADHD friendly or supportive items for this year. Happy Shopping!!

Colorful Mini Notebooks

These 3.5” x 5.5” notebooks are great for popping into your pocket, purse,or backpack, to use as a catch all for all of the thoughts and ideas that pop into your brain while you’re out and about. They also can be used for doodling during meetings or phone calls, which helps to keep you focused. And they are so reasonably priced that there is no need for any guilt when you stop using it, and then start another! https://amzn.to/4oDZxU2

 

Planner/Reminder Keychains and Luggage Tags
The keychain is a great item for ADHD kids or adults who might forget one or two items for their backpacks. There is room on this key chain to list items, tasks…whatever you need. You can then attach it to your purse to use as a checklist, and consult it before leaving the house. When the task is complete, or you’ve included your item, you can click it to a checkmark on the tag (and that click is a nice dopamine booster!).So if remembering to shut off the lights or turn on the cat feeder is tough on busy mornings, this can help you!  https://amzn.to/4vonJfI

For younger kids, or more visual folks, these luggage tags can be given the same job of supporting working memory! Simply put a picture of your kiddo ready to leave the house, or of the inside of their backpack, and the reminder is right there,hanging on the strap! Works for the inside of adult carrier bags too! https://amzn.to/4fYxVqD

 

 

Colorful Rubber Bracelets
Here is an awesome ADHD hack I picked up on the “ADHD Chatter” podcast (highly recommended, BTW)! When there is something that we will need to remember to do later or tomorrow, write it on one of these bracelets, and keep it on until you’ve completed the task. You can write directly on the bracelet or use some medical tape. Wearing something physical is a much more in-your-face reminder than one on your phone. The suggestion that got me was leaving some bracelets that say “empty washing machine” on top of the washer. Pop on the bracelet, and there it will stay until you move the wet clothes to the drier!   https://amzn.to/3QXr46u

NFC Stickers
This is something I learned about through one of my clients, and although it involves a bit of prep work, once it’s set up it’s brilliant. Did you know that you can set up shortcuts on your phone? (I am referring to iPhone, however I would imagine there’s a way to do this on Android). What that allows you to do is to put a few different actions together under one shortcut. For example, you can build a shortcut that will start a particular motivating playlist at the same time a list of kitchen cleaning tasks pops up. How do the NFC stickers come in? You can start the shortcut by programming your phone to recognize the NFC sticker for that shortcut. So I can put my phone next to the sticker in the kitchen, the playlist pops on, and the list of kitchen tasks opens. Again, a bit of work to get going, but once you do it, it’s a great way to automate your daily stuff! https://amzn.to/4ae16SQ

 Wrightslaw: From Emotions to Advocacy:  The Special Education Survival Guide 
The Wrightslaw website is THE source of information on special education law for laymen (https://www.wrightslaw.com/). This is where you can find out what qualifies for a Section 504 plan, how the IEP process works, and all things legal relating to advocating for your ADHD kiddo. This book contains so much information that you will find useful. Remember, you are your child’s advocate; it is vital for you to inform yourself about their rights.  https://amzn.to/4w177L1

 

Sonic Bomb Alarm Clock

So many parents tell me that their ADHD kiddos cannot be awakened by any alarm clock, and so they must wake their little darlings…multiple times. Or there’s the “I can only be awakened by my phone” line, which of course means you have your phone the night before, for scrolling indefinitely. This alarm clock has a very loud alarm, as well as a vibrator that will cause the bed to shake! I would give this one a try – it seems hard to ignore!  https://amzn.to/4xCdh5P

Skylight Calendar

This is a bit pricier than my usual recommendations, but I have so many clients that swear by it, I would be remiss if I didn’t include it. The Skylight Calendar can link together the calendars of the entire family in one place (regardless of what system they are from), so that when you look at Monday, you can see your wife will be late coming home due to a meeting, one child has soccer practice and the other has tutoring. It enables you to plan better. It also helps with the ADHD issue of being unable to see time. By being able to look at all of the blocks that are filled, you will be able to see where you have room to do what you need or want to do. It can also be used for to-do lists, and there is an app for it as well. https://amzn.to/4gt8PQM

Silicone Magnetic Fidget Toys

Choosing fidget toys that help ADHDers focus and stay calm is a very individual matter. Some people need roughness; others like smooth objects. What struck me about this particular set is that there is the tactile piece, with each ball having a different texture, but also a magnetic component, so that it can be arranged in lots of different ways. And best of all, it’s SILENT – a huge bonus! Many, many positive reviews for this set, so if you’re looking for a new fidget, you may want to check this one out! https://amzn.to/4uLogXZ

Are there any items that you would like to recommend? I’d love to hear from you!

Disclosure: I am an Amazon Associate, and have an affiliate relationship with Amazon.

 

 

 

 AI Is A Tool, Not A Person

I have had many clients tell me, “I talked to ChatGPT, and it said…” or “Claude told me…” or even “AI is always so nice to me!”

Is AI a powerful, extremely useful tool? Absolutely. But it’s just that – a tool. Treating AI as if it is a person whose opinion matters is the same as expecting the stove to tell you that what you are planning to cook is a bad idea. 

AI can be particularly helpful to ADHDers. Developing a schedule, breaking down a task, summarizing notes or conversations are all jobs that can be handled by AI quickly and easily. I have encouraged clients to use ChatGPT for resume writing (where style or voice isn’t really a thing), or to draft simple emails. And during those trips down the ADHD rabbit holes? AI is your all knowing tour guide.

However, AI is not human. It is not a friend, or a person, or a mentor.

Why is this important to keep in mind?

First of all, AI is a conglomeration of its training data, and information from the web. This data can be biased. So when you prompt AI to give you a list of, let’s say, ADHD coaches in New Jersey, you may get a list that isn’t updated, or may only be affiliated with a particular training program. This might not lead you to the best coach for you.

Also, “social sycophancy” can occur when AI is in use. Sycophancy means excessive flattery; in this case, sycophancy means AI will agree with the user, regardless of whether they are on the right path or not. According to a Stanford University study, using ChatGPT to discuss an argument can often result in advice that emphasizes that the user is correct, and that there is no need for them to apologize or patch things up with their significant other, even if the user is clearly in the wrong.

With an ADHDer there can be other factors that exacerbate the situation. ADHDers often experience uncertainty in relationships, ranging from people pleasing to feeling a heightened state of rejection. This uncertainty can cause the ADHDer to be more susceptible to AI’s sycophancy, whether they are right or wrong. Also, AI’s insistence that the ADHDer is correct can fan the flames of the argument, causing an emotionally dysregulated ADHDer to continue the argument, rather than discussing peace.

So, how can we safely and effectively use AI?

AI can be a terrific starting point when researching. For example, AI can find a list of ADHD coaches in New Jersey. After that, however, it is up to the user to follow up by speaking to coaches and finding a good fit.

As I mentioned earlier, AI is also a great tool for navigating executive function challenges. Prompting ChatGPT “I have five things to do today, can you help me to prioritize them?” is an excellent way to utilize AI. Again, it is the user’s responsibility to see if that list makes sense in the larger context of their day and life. Following AI’s recommendations blindly is giving less trust to one’s own abilities and knowledge than to ChatGPT’s. And that’s just not valid. You know yourself better than Claude does

How about using AI for advice?

One must remember that AI doesn’t feel. ChatGPT can deliver an empathetic response, but it has no empathy. Claude can tell you that you were 100% right in an argument, but really has no understanding of you, the other person, your history, your anxieties, your rejection sensitivity…none of it. In the words of Myra Cheng, a computer scientist at Stanford University, “It’s important to seek additional perspectives from real people who understand more of the context of your situation and who you are, rather than relying solely on AI responses.”

Using AI to find a variety of solutions to the problem that caused the argument is okay. Asking Claude for methods to stay calm during a heated discussion – great. But when it comes to asking AI what to do? That’s a big no.

So AI can be useful, it can be a timesaver, it can help with the mundanities of life.

But it is not your BFF.